Guys..
I really really REALLY like this post. This was on my bulletin board. A guy wrote this, and I must say that some serious thought actually went into this. Whoever this guy is, he seems to be speaking from experience. And I think it’s really good, though I don’t think I agree with some of the points. But anyway, it is pretty insightful…
1. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
2. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they’re gonna say so there aren’t awkward pauses, but once he’s on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.
3. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
4. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.
5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they’re goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.
6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.
8. Don’t talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.
9. Guys get jealous easily.
10. Guys are more emotional than they’d like people to think.
11. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh…nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he’ll assume he did something wrong and he’ll obsess about it trying to figure it out.
12. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
13. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.
14. Girls are guys’ weaknesses.
15. Guys are very open about themselves.
16. It’s good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don’t let him wait too long.
17. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
18. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
19. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
20. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.
21. Guys will brag about anything.
22. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you.
23. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn’t notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.
24. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy’s confused, then we’re all confused.
25. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.
26. Try to be as straightforward as possible.
27. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be mature and grown up.
28. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.
29. No matter how much guys talk about bodies and looks, personality is key.
30. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
31. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.
32. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."
33. Guys don’t really have final decisions.
34. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does, you know something’s up.
35. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you’re with your boyfriend, he’s probably jealous and likes you.
36. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
37. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
38. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.
39. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.
40. Don’t be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.
Ok, these are the ones I don’t agree with. Number 15 and 38.
For one thing, most guys are not very open about their feelings. They find it sooo difficult to tell a girl that they like them! And do you know how frustrating it is for a girl who knows that this guy likes her but can’t find the guts to open up about it? So in the end, if she also has feelings for this guy, she has to make the first move. That is not fair! According to the unwritten rules of relationships, GUYS are supposed to make the first move. But seriously though, that does not happen as much anymore. More and more girls are taking it into their own hands to make the first move because they just can’t take the waiting game anymore.
Now, since when guys talk more about girls then girls talk mroe about guys? Ok, I’m not a guy and I have no real idea what guys actually do talk about when they are not with girls. But I find it hard to believe that they do talk about girls that much, providing that No.38 is true. I find that most guys are interested in thngs like cars, or sports, or other ‘guy’ stuff like that. I mean, I accept that guys do talk about girls, but definitely not more than girls talk about guys. And that, I know for a fact.
~@[d]3L!]\[#~
